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Thanksgiving journal prompts for the day you actually have

Thanksgiving journal prompts are for a day that can be loud, busy, lonely or tense. "What are you thankful for?" is a hard question to answer at a full table. These Thanksgiving prompts ask one specific question at a time. Pick one, set a 10-minute timer and start writing before, during or after the day.

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40 prompts in 6 groups, from the night before to the Friday after. Thanksgiving is Thursday, November 26.

Before, during and afterIncludes hard yearsFor pen & paper journalers
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How to use these Thanksgiving prompts

You don't need a quiet house or a full hour. One prompt and 10 minutes is enough, whether you write the night before, in a quiet minute on the day or on Friday morning.

  • Pick the group that matches where you are: before the day, on it or after it.
  • Answer with one specific person, dish or moment instead of a list.
  • If this year is hard, start with the group written for that. Skip anything that does not fit.

A 10-minute Thanksgiving reflection

Use it on the day itself or the morning after.

  1. 012 minutes: Notice. Write down what you can see, hear and smell right now.
  2. 026 minutes: Write. Pick one prompt above and keep going until the timer ends.
  3. 032 minutes: Carry it forward. Write one line you want to keep from today.

40 Thanksgiving journal prompts

Six groups, from the night before to the Friday after. Start with the one that fits your day.

Before the day

  1. 1What three words do you want to describe this Thanksgiving by Friday morning?
  2. 2Which part of the holiday prep are you skipping this year, and who needs to know?
  3. 3Is there a topic that's off the table for you this year? What will you say if it comes up?
  4. 4What are you bringing to the meal, and who will you think of while you make it?
  5. 5How much of the day do you want to spend with people, and how much on your own?
  6. 6What would tell you it's time to leave early, and what is your plan if that happens?
  7. 7Before bed on Wednesday, what small thing could you do so Thursday starts calmer?

Family, friends and traditions

  1. 1Which dish at your Thanksgiving has a story behind it? Write the story down before it gets lost.
  2. 2Who first showed you the tradition you look forward to most, and how did they do it?
  3. 3Which friends feel like family, and what did they do to earn that place?
  4. 4What tradition did you start yourself, and why did you start it?
  5. 5What would you want the next generation at your table to know about how the day used to go?
  6. 6Whose voice do you still hear when you set the table or carve the turkey?
  7. 7Which recipe do you want to learn from someone this year, and who will you ask?

Small joys of the day

  1. 1What did the kitchen smell like at its best moment today?
  2. 2Which bite of the meal was the best one, and who cooked it?
  3. 3What sound in the house made you smile: a laugh, the game, a pan, a dog?
  4. 4Where did you find a quiet minute today, and what did you notice there?
  5. 5What was the funniest thing someone said today?
  6. 6Look out the window this afternoon. What does the light look like?

The year in gratitude: Thanksgiving gratitude prompts

  1. 1Whose help this year are you most thankful for, and how could you tell them this weekend?
  2. 2What went right this year that you never stopped to celebrate?
  3. 3What are you thankful for this year that cost nothing?
  4. 4Which hard month of this year are you glad is behind you, and who helped you past it?
  5. 5Which place did you spend time in this year that you're grateful for?
  6. 6What did you get better at this year, and who made that possible?

When Thanksgiving is hard

For a year when you're far from people, alone, missing someone, dreading the gathering, working the holiday or not celebrating at all. Skip any prompt that doesn't fit. Journal Party supports reflection and habit-building. It is not therapy or a substitute for professional care. In crisis? Call or text 988 (US) or visit findahelpline.com.

  1. 1Spending Thanksgiving alone this year? What will you cook or order, and where will you eat it?
  2. 2Miles from home this year? Who will you call, and what do you want to hear from them?
  3. 3Grieving someone this Thanksgiving? What do you want to say about them today?
  4. 4If the gathering is stressful, what will you do in the first 10 minutes after you leave?
  5. 5Working on Thanksgiving? What do you want the shift, or the hours after it, to hold?
  6. 6If you are not celebrating this year, what do you want Thursday to be instead?
  7. 7What is hard about this Thanksgiving that nobody around you can see?
  8. 8What do you need from someone this week, and who could you ask?

After the day: Thanksgiving reflection questions

  1. 1What happened today that you didn't see coming?
  2. 2Next November, what do you want to do differently, and what do you want to repeat?
  3. 3Who do you want to thank for today, and what exactly will you thank them for?
  4. 4What did you learn about someone at the table today?
  5. 5What do you want Friday to look like after a long Thursday?
  6. 6Which photo from today do you wish you had taken? Describe it.

Turn a prompt into a note

Pick one line you wrote about a person. Copy it into a card or a text to them, and keep the specific detail.

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FAQ

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Pick one specific thing: a tradition and who taught it to you, one moment from the day, or something you want to change next year. Set a 10-minute timer and write about just that.

Write about the day you're actually having. The prompts under "When Thanksgiving is hard" cover distance, being alone, grief, a stressful gathering, working the holiday and not celebrating. Skip anything that doesn't fit.

10 minutes is a good length for one prompt. Set a timer and stop when it ends. If you want a little structure, try the 10-minute reflection above. Bring your own journal. We'll bring the prompts, the timer, and the music.

Specific things: a person, a moment, a small comfort or something that helped on a hard day. For more ideas, see our gratitude journal prompts.

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